Tony & Lorna DeRoest Family Blog

One year already

2011-10-01T08:11:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to our little Parkypants. He did get a bit partied-out after a while but had fun with balloons, singing and other typcial birthday celebrating. We love our little blonde boy, he is growing up so fast. He, like Ethan, seems to eager to do everything. They both keep us laughing, on our toes & amaze us with how quickly they catch onto things. Thank you for all the messages, calls & gifts. He's a well-loved little man.

Hugs & love from Georgia

Bouncing boys & bonding brothers

2011-07-21T11:44:00.000-07:00

Ethan & Parker continue (for the most part) to enjoy their time together. It's fun to watch them interact & just be boys. In a little over 5 weeks Ethan will be at preschool each day. I hope it's a smooth transition & a new chapter that we'll each enjoy. It will be a change that's for sure. He'll be able to make more friends and I look forward to needing to find sitters less often. (At least I'll only need one watched when those instances arise). Not to mention, shopping, or going anywhere, with just one child sounds ga-lor-ious--done in a singing voice. I will miss my little buddy but am glad I'll have his brother's company for a while.

4th of July

2011-07-04T21:07:00.000-07:00

This year for the 4th of July Tony and I spent it serving others. First in preparing both Tina and Claire to dress and enjoy the Rodeo which they went with Zeke, and a couple young boys that are also here visiting from Taiwan. They both loved dressing up a bit, and greeted Zeke with a "Yahoo" as they opened the door.

After many attempts of taking a picture of the four of us, with no luck, we settled with separate pictures with the girls.

Mollala Roundup. Both the girls had mixed emotions watching the clowns, and the bull riders. They felt part was very cruel to the bulls, and the others were crazy. I tend to agree. They did enjoy the horses per session.

After the rodeo they enjoyed a BBQ, and bonfire at Zeke's parents in Oregon City.
Tony and I attended a Veterans appreciation BBQ at the Happy Valley Church building pavilion. It was sponsored by our ward, but was a time that we could serve the Veterans, and show appreciation for the service they rendered for us. It was a very fun, yet full day in the sun. By evening we were all ready to call it a day, especially knowing Tuesday was a school & work day.

Family additions for the summer.

2011-07-02T09:25:00.001-07:00

On Monday June 20 Tony and I received a phone call in need of finding a home for these two girls from Taiwan, for just a few days. They were to arrive on Tuesday the 21st, so the coordinator was in a hurry to find somewhere temporary for them. However the home they were to go to on Saturday had a change of circumstance, so we decided to have them stay with us until Sept. 29th.
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Meet Yang Ssu Hsin (Claire, chosen American name) on the right, and Chen Ting Hung (Tina) on the left. We found after just a very short time, we have truly enjoyed there since of humor, willingness to learn, and dedication to speaking English while here in America; and they do it quite well I might add.
I think one thing we love about them both, is the fascination with the beauty around us, that we tend to take advantage of.
On the first sunny day, a couple days after there arrival, they noticed the roses in the back yard, so we went outside to pick some, but also to take pictures. Tina took many pictures, and has quite a talent for capturing its beauty.They have already enjoyed several outings with the coordinator, and we have many planned with them as well, so they can gain the most from this experience.

Rocky Butte was the setting for these pictures. Zeke Smith (the coordinator) was showing them the fort that existed in Northeast Portland long ago.

The Vista House allows a beautiful landscape of the Columbia River.
And Multnomah Falls is one of the great places to bring those visiting here in Oregon. I think the girls enjoyed it very much. They didn't however want to hike all the way to the top.

A Sobering Moment of Appreciation.

2011-05-30T20:51:00.001-07:00

Today was a day to remember the many that have passed on, and appreciate what they stood for.
Tony and I started our day by going to the cemetery first to place a marker on dads grave, then onto the Willamette National Cemetery to see the sea of flags of the many in the military that have served our country. It was a very sobering feeling to drive through, and as far as the eyes can see there are rows and rows of flags by every headstone; thousands upon thousands of flags.

When our children were younger we would go and help place the flags. Scout troops from all over the Willamette valley volunteered for that special chance, or opportunity, then come back for the special flag raising ceremony, and the honor guard salute.
I think it sank deep in their hearts, and instilled a great love for our country, as well as those that helped to protect it.

"55" years ago

2011-05-18T21:41:00.000-07:00

This year for Tony's birthday he and I spent the weekend before at Long Beach Washington relaxing. I however forgot my camera so no photo's were taken. It was a nice getaway even though most of the time it was overcast. It didn't rain until Sunday as we were driving back to Portland. Sometimes its just nice not to have anything planned to do but relax. We walked, watched movies, played ping pong, visited with family, and loved the warm pool & hot tub.

On his actual Birthday we went to a new Resterant in Vancouver Washington called the "Grant House". It was a beautiful day, and fun evening with a wonderful man that has blessed my life for 36 years.
I love him more now than ever, and excited for the goals and direction we are working forward to together. "Happy Birthday"

Mothers Flower garden

2011-05-17T10:11:00.000-07:00

Mother has spent this month working on her flower garden to keep her busy. This was taken on mothers day, and has doubled now. We need to figure out what craft, or activity she can do next before it gets anymore out of hand, but at least it has been very uplifting for her.
She say's she has a flower garden that never needs water, yet continues to flourish.
Pops, loves the bright colors, so this has replaced his Christmas lights that I put up at Christmas, and he didn't want them to be taken down, however the fire marshal had other instructions.

Happy Mothers Day !!

2011-05-08T10:06:00.000-07:00

To all mom, women, and future moms, "Happy Mothers Day".

Happy mother's day.

2011-05-08T07:00:00.000-07:00

Thank you for all you do. And for so many great memories.

Easter Sunday at the Fort

2011-04-28T21:30:00.000-07:00

Easter Sunday Family visit was very short, but time to take pictures of remembrance. The biggest changes were of the Nieces, or Nephews. They are all grown up.

I wish I could have rounded up the siblings to take a picture with mom, but that just wasn't meant to be I guess. We had a fun time while we could.

Family Ties

2011-04-25T18:48:00.000-07:00

Six and a half years ago we made a fast trip to San Diego for Rodney's Marine graduation, so this return trip has been long overdue.
Tony and I flew into San Diego Wednesday night April 20th. By the time we arrived, a couple of layovers later, we ended up sleeping in San Diego. Thanks to Joe & Kim. They reserved two hotel rooms for their son Nolen's baseball tournament. One of the rooms they had available, so they offered it to us for the night.
Patti & Hank had a wonderful guest home to stay in for the remainder of our visit which I enjoyed picking fresh oranges, tangelos, tangerines, and grapefruit each day. Yum!!!
It was allot of fun to visit with the California family for Easter weekend, as well as support Thom performing his one man play of "St John in Exile" at Patti's theater in Fallbrook California.

Thursday- we went into town to visit the theater and all who were involved. Come evening we enjoyed a great dinner with Mechelle & Ken's in Marrieta CA. Mom stayed with Mechelle for her entire California visit.
We took mom with us to opening night performance. Thom did a great job, however they did not have a microphone on him, so many had a difficult time hearing him, which made it hard to really appreciate the message that he was sharing.

That was changed for the remainder of the performances.

Friday- morning we enjoyed a nice breakfast with Patti, Hank, & Thom at Aquaterra's, a restaurant at the Golf course that Hank is a member of.

Then we drove to Joe's new Hardware store in Lake Ellsenor. He was very proud to show us around, and Tony was equally excited to be there and see it.
Since Joe was still working, we left, and drove to Mechelle's to visit more with her, and the kids. It gave us time to tour their beautiful home in the daylight.

The evening was spend visiting with Joe at his home.

They have done amazing things to there backyard since we were last there. Another big change was how large the tortoise got in the past six years. It roams the back yard.
Which included a putting green that of course was enjoyed by Tony.
We went to a late dinner so we could meet up with Kim after she got off work. With such a short time to work with, we were tring to see everyone, which meant much driving. The goal was to see Terri also and her new home, but schedules never seemed to work out, sorry Terri, hopefully next time we will do better planning.
We were glad we got to see and visit with you and Patrick. You both look amazing!!! Congratulations on your weight loss. Keep up the good work.

After the show Patti, & Thom drove to San Diego to pick up Nancy, so it was a late night.

Saturday- was a busy day of preparing for the final two performances, but also preparing for Easter Sunday dinner held at Hank's "Valley Fort".
He is very proud of this new venture, and worked very long and hard to restore the property. They have an amazing vision of what the future holds there.

(Dinner between performances at the Firehouse Grill.)
Thom's final performance was even more amazing than the first. He nailed it beautifully. The spirit was there, and I think all that attended couldn't help but feel moved by its message. Mom attended all four performances, and felt that Saturday night was the best one as well.
Sunday- Time to pack and prepare for departure. Our flight was scheduled to depart at 4:30 which meant very little time to socialize with family. We did however, finally get to meet Amy's husband Jesse.
Thanks so much for the hospitality to all during our visit. We had a great time, and hope to do it again sooner than the last time.
We love you!

Georgia Aquarium

2011-04-18T11:28:00.001-07:00

Before heading back home we checked out the aquarium and got to see more of Atlanta. There was a lot to see & we enjoyed a 3d show as well. There were effects with water & chairs being rattled & shocked. Ethan wasn't super thrilled with that but we were happy both boys handled the crazy loud volume. It was ridiculously crowded so we took turns staying with Parker & our entourage of stuff. There was plenty of chasing Ethan and getting to a good viewing point. There were moments I started to feel like climbing the walls just to escape the crowd & get some air. Anthony found it amusing at one point when about 5 bodies mashed around me. bleh! No personal space here unless you're in the bathroom! eek.
It was gorgeous while were there and so great to see hills, mountains and winding roads. It's been a long time!

Daddy & son bonding

2011-04-18T11:18:00.000-07:00

..and a straggler Temple pic. Saturday afternoon Ethan & daddy went to the Atlanta Braves game. They had great seats, for a great price and, of course, enjoyed a foot long hot dog. Ethan must have been in hot dog heaven! Sadly I'd left my phone at home but Anthony was sweet and made sure to call. We ran into other ward friends (who have moved) that also headed to the game.

Anthony said Ethan got antsy by the 3rd inning, no surprise there. We spent a lot of the weekend on a goose chase with him!

Glad they had fun and were able to spend time with us and unwind before bed.

Atlanta trip

2011-04-18T10:23:00.000-07:00

On Friday evening we left for Atlanta. We were looking forward to the Atlanta Temple open house. The Temple is being re-dedicated on May 1st. This is one of the smoother trips (road or flying) we have made as a family. Lots of preparations as always and many details to organize. It was great to see a big city though I found the 7 lanes (in each direction) on the freeway a bit crazy! We made it through insane tornado weather and arrived safely at our hotel. Evidently there were 100 across the south that day! Some friends in our ward happened to be staying there as well. It was great that Ethan had a friend to run around with on Saturday (and company for us). We enjoyed the spirit of the Temple and then went to a mall nearby for lunch & attended to other things. From there we went 'home' to relax a bit before
the boys left for the Braves game. Parker & I stayed plenty busy and enjoyed a little quiet.
We loved having time to enjoy with just each other. Loooong overdue and much needed! I will post again shortly with the baseball & aquarium pics..

"Happy Birthday"

2011-04-11T08:34:00.000-07:00

One week ago today my brother Ron had another Birthday.
We were able to celebrate both his 47th, and Pops 89th birthday together, yesterday on the 10th.
It was great to meet with the few family members that are here in town, but it made it even better when Sandi and Eric surprised us all with their visit after traveling in from Utah.
I'm not to sure how much Pops took in, but he was sure excited about the cupcake, and ice cream. We barely got him to blow out the candle before taking a big bite of the cake. Nothing was slowing him down.
Tony's mom, Blanche has always been very supportive in celebrating with us for many Birthdays. It was nice to have her with us.
I think she enjoyed it as well.
As I get older I get more and more sentimental about the time I am able to spend with family. It seems to be few and far between anymore.

Mother was tickled to have us together. Linda, and Lonnie you were missed.

Ethan's 4th birthday & other recent happenings

2011-04-06T10:18:00.000-07:00

Life spins out of control at times but we love our time together. We enjoy celebrating important (and 'ordinary' days). It makes the constant 'up to our eyes' a bit more balanced and worthwhile. In general things are beyond busy each day and there's a lot of 'extra' lately with Airman leadership school, appts and more running around. I know Anthony & I are hoping this next month goes smoothly--and incredibly fast.

Monday was Ethan's birthday & we had a party as a fam once daddy arrived home. Anthony came home during lunch which was a nice surprise too. We'd just come in from the store & he helped us with a few things before having to leave. Ethan had a super early bath and (somewhat comical..but not) I juggled making dinner, appeasing the boys, setting up the party and cleaning in the frenzy..all at once. We had fun pinning the tail on the donkey after dinner followed by cake, ice cream & gifts. Last night he & I had a belated birthday outing to see Hop. It was a cute show & nice to get out with just him. He had a bit of a rough time being the antsy boy he is. He and Parker also had immunizations yesterday. Due to the fact, he was not a big fan of walking. Big days...more exhausting!
In our haste the candle was put on after everyone had a plate..

Anthony & brother during the singing

Ethan's done great with school time (about two years now) and Parker started veggies & fruits this last week. He's also been eager to scoot and talk.

We are looking forward to the Atlanta Temple open house. It will be a first for me going through an open house and also being in Atlanta. Anthony has a date planned with Ethan which they're excited about. We're planning to see the aquarium before heading home. It will be a blur but nice to get away. Lots of sacrifices on everyone's part..I think after this school business is over we need a vacation just to recover and celebrate. I'm proud of my hubby and our two sweet boys. Love & hugs from Georgia

Precious Parker Pictures

2011-04-02T07:13:00.000-07:00

"It's all about Parker, little words, and allot of pictures"

What can I say, It's like looking at his daddy all over again, except he actually does sleep at night.

It is hard to believe that he is only 5 months due to his size and actions. Both say he is older in these pictures.
The funny thing I would try to capture special moments with others, and Parker would always stop what he was doing to look at the camera. A bit of a ham I would say. I guess he just knows how cute he is.

Grama's and Grampa's were trying to soak in as much as possible before having to leave.
Fun and tender moments.
The best part is that he will cuddle, and laugh most of the time, and we all took enjoyed every minute of it. Quite the fun toy.

Ethan can just about always make him laugh. He loves his brother.

Ethan's pre- Birthday party

2011-03-22T17:07:00.000-07:00

I know Chelsea posted some of the Birthday pictures, however I have more cute ones to add, so decided to have another post of the evening. Since the 4 grandparents have never celebrated a birthday with Ethan, we decided on Monday would be his day. It was a day of playing at the park, eating his favorite pizza. (Pepperoni)
Singing, very sad I must say.
Eating cake and ice cream, then watching him open his presents. Toy Story is one of his favorite movies and ended up being the theme of many of his gifts.
Which he didn't seemed to mind , and thanked everyone for his gifts.
Even Parker enjoyed being festive for the party, and surprised Grampa Morse with a special treat, well maybe not so special. I love the captured action shot as well as a surprised look on grampa's face.This is what he does best however.
We closed the evening with watching one of his gifts, Monsters Inc. I'm not sure if that was the best choice that late, but he didn't seem bothered come time for bed, which he got to sleep over night in with grama and grampa Morse. We enjoyed our slumber party on the Friday night before Marilyn and Dave arrived.
After Anthony, Chelsea and Parker went home it was fun to put Buzz Light year puzzle together. I'm not sure who got the bigger kick out of it, Ethan or the grandpa's.
Either way it was a mission accomplished, and a fun evening.

Special moments with Michael

2011-03-22T16:40:00.000-07:00

Though our time was very limited with Michael, we enjoyed having him with us if only for a couple of days.Just watching he and Lexi interact while out to dinner was quite entertaining. Lexi loved to tease her daddy by pretending she is going to give him a kiss, then reaching up to snatch his glasses off his face. I must say she did look pretty cute in them.
On Sunday after the meeting they walked around enjoying the beautiful Sunshine.
It was a very tender sight to watch the two of them.Once arriving back at the house, Anthony BBQ'd steak & chicken for dinner while salads were being prepared. Michael did the honors of feeding Parker.
At first he was standing with him in arms, then decided to sit and have some arm support. Parker is one solid little man, so can tire out an arm very quickly.
I appreciate Michael taking the time out of his busy schedule to come and be with us. We don't seem to get those moments enough it seems, so they are truly treasured.

Play time, party & final moments with G&G Morse

2011-03-21T23:04:00.000-07:00

Yea for great company, wonderful time and yummy food!

Lexi's surprise visit to Georgia

2011-03-20T17:36:00.000-07:00

We were all excited to have Michael come to Georgia for Parker's blessing and he surprised us all by bringing Lexi as well. At first she was a little timid around us, but warmed right up with Ethan when he picked her a flower (Dandelion).
Within no time they were playing, sharing toys, laughing and having a great time.

Lexi loved playing with her daddy's glasses. She would tease him by snatching them off his face and putting them on herself.

Come Sunday morning we took pictures outside prior to going to church. She looked so cute in her dress.
Even Grampa D was able to hold her for a minute.

After arriving back home she and Ethan had a fun time in the yard prior to going back inside to change clothes. I asked Ethan to turn around so I could take a picture and instead they started spinning around and around in circles laughing and giggling. They are a couple of teases.

Lexi loved to play with baby Parker as well, which he seemed to enjoy until she scared him by squealing with delight when she got to hold him.

Grampa had fun watching the two of them interact.
As Sunday came to a close for she and Michael's visit it was time to say our good-byes and see them off to the airport.
I know it was a sad moment for all of us, yet I also know how much Lexi missed her momma and sister Savannah, as did we all.

Family time in Georgia

2011-03-19T22:12:00.000-07:00

This last week we were blessed to have family here to celebrate some great events. The main reason was for Parker's blessing. All the Grandmas & Grandpas wanted to have an early birthday party for Ethan. Since we haven't been able to see family around that time (other than when he joined our family) we loved the idea. I have a few pics where we are each super involved in finding a Nephite books. Ethan is great at spotting him too but was not nearly as obsessed as the adults. Ethan had a great time with 'fishing,' sleep-overs, fun with cousin Lexi & Uncle Michael, his party, extra outings, movies & exploring with the grandparents. Lexi was a great surprise (I believe Anthony was the only one in the loop about it). I didn't see her until we were all thisclose and greeting her dad. She was well concealed by all of Ethan's overnight stuff I guess. She was missing mom but seemed to be a champ about everything & had a great time with Ethan. Not to mention it's fun to have an adorable niece (there are a few actually!) in lace & bows. So cute! We were able to visit most of each day, plus our typical things & fun again in the evening and night. The dads golfed on Monday morning & the 3 of us went with the moms to breakfast. Though a ton went into prepping for things, plus parents with drama (both in Portland prior to leaving and traveling as well as being away from Grandma and Grandpa Allen), I think all had a wonderful time with many great memories. We are grateful for each of you & enjoyed having you here. Thank you for your sacrifices and overcoming road-blocks to be here. I'm especially grateful to those who kept us in prayers that Anthony wouldn't be called away.

Orlando Highlights

2011-03-03T22:00:00.000-08:00

Last week Tony and I were invited to fly to Orlando Fl. with his brothers, wives and sister Mary. Everyone was excited to meet up with Joe & Kim and their daughter Kristin & hubby Eric who all flew in from California.
Each year Joe attends a hardware convention there and with the Grand opening of his new store coming up, it was a time to order supplies as well as get the word out about the store.

Some of the other highlights for the guys were to play golf each day. One day they managed to play two rounds at two different courses. Each course was very unique and challenging, with all the water hazards they lost allot of golf balls. The alligators made them leary of trying to fish the balls out. They were golfing nearby when the last Space Shuttle Discovery lifted off.
What an exciting event that was especially for Tony and Thom.

My highlights were to have Anthony come stay with us for a couple of days. All the Aunts, and Uncles seem to enjoy his company as well. It's been along time since he has seen Joe and Kim.
I even got to ride on his Harley with him for a spin. It was allot of fun.

Friday the girls went to Universal Studios for the day. It was full day of rides,

walking and much visiting, with an occational refreshing mist..

That night was the first time we were all joined together to attend a Mystery Dinner Theater.
The dinner was delicious, the show was comical, and the company was allot of fun.

Saturday was a day of relaxation. After sleeping in a little Anthony and I went down for breakfast and met with Joe for a nice visit before the rest of the group came to join us, minus Tony, Thom, and John who were once again golfing.
Anthony headed out after breakfast to go back to his family in Georgia, and the rest of us relaxed by the pool, or took a nap before we all joined Joe at the convention center for a few hours.
The evening everyone met for dinner at the hotel, celebrated John's Birthday, then went to various areas to relax. Tony wasn't interested in participating in any, however he did go around and took pictures of Kim and I in the hot tub. Others playing Poker by the pool outside, substituting sugar packets for poker chips . Mary and Dale were in the exercising room. No photos were taken, though I would have loved to see Dale on the treadmill walking with her cain, lol, and Mary rode the stationary bike.

Sunday was the time to bid farewell. Though we did all fly together as far as Phoenix Arizona, we all sat apart on the plane.
I think everyone was pretty tired out.
Thanks again Joe and Kim for the invite and time spent together, it was wonderful.

Hooray! A pleasant visit and no cavities

2011-03-03T17:58:00.001-08:00

Tuesday was Ethan's exam & cleaning. Knowing 'the worst' could happen (ie screaming, crying and fighting everyone) we talked this up for a while. One of our friends raved about it the day before as well. He was leery about having his teeth polished but I can't say I blame him. He asked about & got a hold of anything he could. He also saw how our hygienist moved the chair & thought it was his personal amusement park. Thankfully she was tolerable of all his activity & constant curiosity. He watched the background screensavers as well as a couple 'shows' with puppies explaining what goes on at a dental visit. He was happy they had a treasure box--I know I always looked forward to that as a kid. This was one of many, many appointments in the last month..and lots of drama and repairs. I'm glad this was a good visit for all. He did great considering he's getting over an ear infection and other sickies. You wouldn't know it by his smile. Daddy was able to be home early with Parker which was nice as well.

A time for those you love.

2011-02-14T19:43:00.000-08:00

This past weekend Tony and I enjoyed attending a church dance on Friday night. The first couple hours were for families of all ages, then the last were for 14 years and above. I can safely say we are above that age, so we stayed a while longer. I personally enjoyed the first couple of hours most, because of watching all the little ones enjoy the music so much, and dancing like there was no tomorrow. Even those with babies would dance together with babes in arms. It wasn't the best turn out overall, yet those that attended had a great time.
The Valentines theme continued Saturday night when we were invited out to Cathy and Micheal's for a special formal dinner that they prepare, and serve to there children & spouses each year.This year however two of the family members were unable to attend, so they invited Tony and I. What a wonderful treat that was.

Both Cameo, and Sara brought their little ones, then enjoyed watching a movie, while the couples continued onto there Stake dance.

We have attended out there for years with both Cathy & Michael, and Sandi & Eric when they were here in town.
Needless to say many recognize us over the years, which make it fun to catch up with acquaintances of the past. Visiting wasn't all we enjoyed however. Even with a few aches and pains we had a wonderful time dancing the night away.
So for the many that we are not able to be close with, we wish you a Happy Valentines Day.
A day set aside to recognize the many we Love.

My boy's back in town!!!

2011-01-15T11:14:00.001-08:00

Yea for having our family complete again! Anthony got home Wednesday night so with our banner, camera, curry made & Christmas lights on we headed to the base. In the last 2 1/2 days it's been wonderful to have him back. It's been full with the on-going but we also had a date (love those!), plenty of assistance with the house, boys & errands.

We just celebrated our Christmas so it's been quite the fun, busy Saturday. We are very blessed to have each other as well as our families and loved ones. Of course he's been to work a bit each day but we all maximize our time together. We all managed to crash at the same time yesterday--much needed. I love group naps as they are pretty rare. These balanced days aren't frequent either but I'm really loving them.

Glad to have him home safe & sound. Thank you for the many prayers on his behalf (& others who are deployed). We could feel them on this end as well. Lots of hugs & love,
Chelsea, Anthony, Ethan & Parker

New Years Day

2011-01-02T14:03:00.000-08:00

Since Mom DeRoest was in California for Christmas we waited until New Years Day to have the DeRoest dinner gathering.
It was a time for a delicious ham dinner, then family fun. Last year it was decided that we should have everyone bring a $ 10. - $15.00 gift wrapped, then we each drew a number in which we could go pick out a gift, or take one that had been opened. That can sometimes create a stir, but everyone seemed to be good-natured and had a fun time.

Like any other family gathering we had an over kill of desserts. Most of which I brought to get them out of our house. Not the best thing to bring where so many are diabetic, but the hope was that the right people would make them disappear.
Bobby & Natessa didn't come down from Madras with the boys this year, so we missed them, however Jessica had her boyfriend & his son with her. Both seemed very nice, and social. Randy Sr. came, however wasn't feeling too well so left early to go home. The rest of the boys were there with girlfriends or friends.

Zack got a little insight of the family with this being his first time meeting some .

It wasn't a late night, no-one wanted to tire mom out any more than what she was, but all
seemed to have a great time.
We hope all had a fund weekend and that this New Year is filled with many blessings and miracles in your lives.

Christmas Blessings

2010-12-26T20:40:00.000-08:00

The family is changing, thus is our traditions.

This was the last year of our family pajamas since the group is getting so large, and everyone is now married and can carry on what traditions they desire.
It was allot of fun having JoAnna and Zack with us for both Christmas Eve at the Dover's
then reading the story of our Savior birth,
and Christmas here at the house.
Tony and I got up at 8:00 am when Rodney called to wish us Merry Christmas. After a nice visit with him we made the rest of the call to the other kids, and grand-kids. We even received a call from Anthony across the World. I love hearing the voice of each of the kids, and knowing they are healthy, happy and safe. JoAnna and Zack got up around 10:30 am in time for biscuits and gravy. Zacks request. It turned out tasty. Then we had them open there gifts. It was fun to watch them with such excitement. I even got my stocking filled this year. I must have been good this year. Come 2:00 Tony, JoAnna, and Zack decided to lay down for a nap, so I went to visit Mother, Pops, and Dorthy (Nancy DeRoest's mom) at Cascade Terrace. Pops was still reflecting on how much fun they had for Christmas Eve. Lasting memories for me.
We invited Marilyn and Dave Morse over for dinner. Sorry, I didn't take pictures. It was a lovely evening of visiting and I must say very relaxing. I did miss the magic of Christmas through the eyes of a child however, so I thought of each of our grandchildren and imagined the great joy they must be experiencing.
Hope all had a wonderful Christ centered Season as well now, and the whole year through.

Christmas Eve at the Dovers

2010-12-25T20:16:00.000-08:00

Cathy and Mikel invited us to their house
Christmas Eve; along with JoAnna and Zack, Ron, Pam, and Ian, and Mother and Pops.
What a great time we all had. I think the most exciting about the evening was that Pops was so alert and with it. Almost like years past. Both he and mother were so appreciative of the time we were all together. They said it was one of there favorite years.
Cathy and Mikel went all out, with dinner, decorations, and treats.

We picked up Mother and Pops from Cascade Terrace around 4 o clock and headed out.Driving by lighted houses, we slowed down to enjoy the adventure. On the way back we saw some homes that were really decked out so we had to get pictures.

By the end of the night they were tired, but wanted to share the adventures with the assistants at Cascade Terrace.
We left them with Merry Christmas hugs for all, and well wishes.

Christmas cookies

2010-12-20T21:36:00.000-08:00

For Family Home evening tonight we invited Teira & Ben Nicholes with there two children over. They brought in Pizza for dinner, and we furnished the cookies with hot chocolate.

Of course the fun part was that everyone decorated the cookies to their own liking. Some were decorated very simple, and others overload with lots of sprinkles.

Then came the tasting.

When the creative decorating was done, they enjoyed taking a plate of cookies home to share with grama and grampa.

Yeah water!

2010-12-18T21:29:00.000-08:00

After much hard work and determination the water line finally got put in and finished. Or should I say got replaced and covered? We still need to add more dirt & gravel in the trenches now that the rain has settled the ground. At least the worry of things freezing or breaking has diminished.

The project started with the assistance of the
Bird boys, but after struggling to get the front part done, they discovered it was much too difficult and dangerous to try to do the underground drilling around the underground electrical line. So the back half was dug up with a back hoe or hard labor.
Both of which took time in preferably daylight hours. (Which was tricky since it gets dark so early, and by the time Tony and Zack were off work it was very dark.) Tony had to take a few days off of work, as did Zack. Thank goodness Zack was around to lend his muscles since Tony's were very tired out at the end of the day.
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Once Tony allowed some more help to come in for the final fill, it only took about 20 minutes. What a blessing it is that there are so many willing to lend a helping hand when needed. Its our responsibility to not deny others the blessing of service.
Thank you Brandon, Ryan & Scott Bird for your expertise, and the use of your equipment. As well as the missionaries, and Hod Donkin, we really do appreciate it!

Mmmm.. Grama Fudge

2010-12-12T12:17:00.000-08:00

Friday night Tony and I went to visit mom for taking showers, laundry, games, and helping her to make her fudge.
The showers & laundry due to once again having a water line broken at our home, and it was to dark to work any more on fixing it,
and the help with the fudge was not just in eating it.
I know that was what you all were thinking, but she has a hard time stirring the chocolate to get it all mixed, so that is where she needs Tony's muscles.
Mom was the first to try out the results by licking the spoon, then the two of us followed. Yes, it is mighty tasty.

Bath time fun!

2010-12-06T13:31:00.000-08:00

Part of the daily routine for the boys is at about 7:00 pm. Parker has his bath, then Ethan follows. It is such an energizing time, then comes the calm. Parker usually has both legs kicking, arms waving, and plenty to talk about. Ethan on the other hand really isn't excited about having his hair washed, but loves to play with all of his toys that share the tub with him. We had many water wars with the squirt y toys, and of course I was the loser, since he was in the tub, and I was on the outside getting wet.

Mother & Pops 69th year

2010-12-03T13:37:00.001-08:00

Monday the 29th of November Mother & Pops celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary, so we got brave and weathered the storm to take them our for dinner at the Chinese Restaurant around the corner from Cascade Terrace.
Zack came straight from work so really dressed up for the occasion. We were just glad he could make it since this is his favorite Chinese restaurant.

Mother had just got her hair done, so looked really nice and was so excited to have an outing.
I'm not sure Pops ever realized where we were, however after having all his meat ground up for the past 5 months he sure enjoyed the BBQ Pork.
Nothing else was eaten until all the meat was gone. I think we all were entertained watching him enjoy his meat dipped in red sauce and when that was gone he went onto the HOT mustard without showing any reaction, then moved onto the rest of his meal.

I was glad that Cathy was feeling well enough from her cold to join us for dinner, however we missed having Ron, Pam, & Ian come who last minute had health issues of there own.

Even though it was cold and wet, my mother in law decided to go with us to show her support to mother and Pops.
After a couple hours away I think they both were grateful to be back in their warm room for the night, and hopefully feeling very loved.

Park and Play time with Ethan

2010-12-02T13:08:00.000-08:00

Needless to say with a new baby in the house a momma needs to rest when ever possible, which usually will end up about mid day. This gave me time to spend with Ethan either driving to a park for a picnic lunch, then play time with all of is new found best friends, or playing outside with big wheels, cars, playing ball, hide and seek, swinging on the tire swing in the back yard, or going for a walk up the street. Usually a couple hours or more of fun and adventure. Some days Ethan came away pretty tired out, and other days he tired me out.

Other times he would entertain himself by creating a maze with his books, puppet shows with finger puppets, building a house with all the pillows he can gather, or of course watching his favorite shows on T.V. He is one very busy little boy.

Time to be Creative

2010-11-30T13:44:00.000-08:00

Some of the other fun time with Ethan was helping him be creative. He seemed to love the hour or two, depending on what we were working on. It was easy to have some focus with the holidays of Thanksgiving and Christmas, so we made decorations by drawing, coloring, painting, gluing turkeys, cornucopia's, fall leaves, and ornaments. Each time trying to make it a new creation.
Like his daddy he enjoyed helping me with the cooking.
Play-Doh time also gave him time of be very inventive with making fish, pyramids, ships, and many other amazing things. After spending more than an hour with these masterpieces the dough would dry out, then it managed to be crumbled into a million pieces on the table and floor. I only wish I had taken a picture to capture our surprise. It certainly wasn't something we wanted him to repeat. That is what happens when creation time is left alone for any length of time with a three year old.

A Time of Graditude

2010-11-25T01:11:00.000-08:00

Since I am flying home today, we had our Thanksgiving feast yesterday. Yes, the food is something we look forward to each year, however I have so many many things to be grateful for.
Just thinking back on this amazing year of time spend with my sweetheart away, as well as with family it has helped me to focus on how blessed I am.
I have been able to enjoy time with each one of the children at various times, though they all live far away. What a miracle it is to have transportation that can allow you to go from one side of the world, to the other in a matter of a couple of days.
I feel so blessed to live in this country, and for all the many that are willing to fight to keep that freedom, sometimes we may feel like that is our right, however it is a privileged that I really want to be preserved.
I'm grateful for the opportunity I have had to attend various meetings to build, and uplift my spirits that help to deal with the challenges of life.
I'm grateful for my Savior who loves us all so very much that he died for me, as he did for each of us so that we may return to live with him someday.
What a beautiful world we live in. I hope and pray that all will reflect on what marvels are all around us, and go out of your way to lift and help someone that is struggling to stand on their own.
Make this Thanksgiving a year of reflection, a year of Gratitude, of year of Giving Back. Learn to recognize the many blessings all around us, then get down on your knees more often to give thanks to him who has given all to us.
Have a "Happy, Grateful Thanksgiving!"

Mother - Baby Bonding

2010-11-21T20:17:00.000-08:00

I know Chelsea really doesn't care to have her picture taken, however she consented to a few precious moment pictures to be shared.It has been so much fun watching Parker respond whenever he see's, or hears his momma's voice, or when Chelsea gives him kisses.
He will respond with cue's, smiles and laughs. It is so adorable.

Today I witnessed when Parker was less than happy, then Anthony called, so Chelsea put the phone on speaker. Parker stopped crying instantly when he heard his voice and started looking around. Ethan also came running in the room to say "Hi" to daddy.
Parker seems to enjoy looking at the family picture on the wall. It has a calming comfort to him that he tends to talk to, or just stare at.
What a joy it is to be around and see this wonderful bonding that goes on between a mother and child, and the recognition of a daddy's voice from far away and not being forgotten .

Parker days!

2010-11-17T18:37:00.000-08:00

Meet our little Parker man. The newest of our 5 grandchildren.

It is always fun to meet our little grandchildren for the first time. Those precious little ones that so recently were in the presence of our Heavenly Father. Even at such a young age they have so much expression, and love to share.
It's amazing how much fun I have just watching this little one sleep, or with his ever changing mood that brings a smile to everyone's' face.One of his favorite time of the day is bath time with his legs and arms moving & kicking. I'm sure he will be an amazing swimmer as he gets older.

Parker seems to resemble his daddy so much, that it has caused me to have many times of reflection of years past. Wow did it ever go by quickly.
Ethan is so good to assist with his needs as much as he can, and really doesn't like it if he is crying. What a wonderful big brother.

Thank you....to all Veterans !!

2010-11-11T06:00:00.000-08:00

I have been blessed in my life to have great examples of those willing to serve our country and feel the importance of Patriotism. Shortly after Tony and I got married he joined the Air Force and we were off on our first adventure to Utah, serving at Hill AFB.
My Papa served in the Marines 70 years ago.

Our Sons serve in the Marines, Army, and Air Force.

and nephews
are both serving in the National Guard, and Army.
There are many other friend and acquaintances also that have dedicated there lives to protect mine.

I want to take the time to Thank all our service men and women both past and present.

Thank you for having faith in this great nation, enough to put your life on the line each day.
Thank you for realizing the importance of standing up to preserve our freedoms,
Thank you for the many sacrifices you give , as well as your loved ones.
I appreciate you, honor you, and will continue to uphold your many efforts.
May God continue to watch over and protect you, and your families, especially while you are separated from them.

"Time Out For Women"

2010-11-06T22:37:00.001-07:00

Every other year I have the opportunity and privilege to attend a special woman's conference here in Portland on a Friday evening, then again most of Saturday. It is a time for a wonderful Spiritual feast. A time to refill my much needed reservoir.

This year was even more great since I was invited to assist as a staff member, therefore enjoying the hype for the last several months. My assignment was standing at the door to greet the very excited sisters that would come 2 plus hours before the event just to stand in line to get the best seats. It was all part of the enthusiasm.

When I first starting attending TOFW it was eight years ago, three of which were shared with JoAnna. A wonderful event for mother/ daughter that made it even more memorable.
I'm grateful JoAnna was here with us at this time to enjoy this once again.

It is so exciting to me to see so many family groups making this event a fun tradition. I also enjoyed the company of my sisters, and looked forward to sharing it together. For some reason it made it all the more special.
I do still have Cathy close enough to continue this tradition, as well as her daughters, and daughter in laws.
A marvelous example of love and unity.
Mikel was a special Priesthood guest for today to assist with any blessing that might be needed.

These are just a few reasons this event is so enjoyable, but the Spiritual feast, and medicine of Laughter that is shared by the amazing speakers that have sacrificed their time to travel around the country to the various states to share faith promoting stories of trials they have experienced, and how they have triumphed through them.

If it did anything these past couple days was made me so very grateful for the trials I have had in my own lives. I wouldn't want to trade with anyone.
The Theme this year was on "Infinite Hope". A very appropriate topic for the times we are living in now, to help all of us be comforted and strengthened for the future. The Lord truly knows our concerns, as well as our pains, and has his arms are outstretched to each of us to help all along the way. Our part is to exercise Faith & Hope in Christ, and know that he will help us.

Even the music was a feast. So many lesson can be taught and lives touched through music. Friday Michael McLean shared the evening, then Saturday Hillary Weeks. Two different styles, but both have been inspired with the music they write.

I was very emotional while listening to this dear sister, Mariama Kallon as she shared her story of living in Africa, and the war that took her parents, and siblings, yet her great courage as she was determined to live. Her message was to "Rejoice in the Lord", "The Lord will bear us up", He has taken upon him our challenges through his atonement, but with our Faith in him we will be lifted up and feel his great love.

Each time attending Time Out for Women I try to encourage others to attend, especially those that never have.
Then comes the real joy in watching there lives be touched, lifted, and changed. I feel every person needs those internal batteries recharged to continue dealing with the everyday life.

Traditional Pumpkin carving

2010-10-25T11:31:00.000-07:00

It is fun to see that even with the kids at a distance they still enjoy the traditional pumpkin carving.
JoAnna and Zack were very private while cutting out their pumpkin as we stood across the counter from them. They creation consisted of a Pumpkin Pi.

Tony 's pumpkin had two faces. One traditional with eyes, nose and mouth, the other with the Portland Temple. A bit more spiritual side of Halloween.

Brent's was Tigger, which I'm sure Brenna loved since she loves the Winnie the Pooh characters.

Anthony and Ethan's creations were the Statue of Liberty (showing his patriotism),
and the face from "Nightmare before Christmas"

Some are still very competitive about it, more in fun than anything, but we all can enjoy seeing the talent that comes out of it.
I never saw any pictures from Rodney & Lauren, or Naomi & Michael. If you did your creations I would love to add them to the collection.
Have a safe and Happy Halloween everyone.

Grampa the Great

2010-10-17T11:15:00.000-07:00

I think this was Brenna's first time meeting Grampa Allen the great! After church we made our visit in the not so pleasant weather conditions to Cascade Terrace. Pops was in the dining room for lunch so we stopped in for a quick visit.
It is a bit overwhelming to a child to see so many older people that she doesn't know, but I know it meant allot to Pops even for the moment. I really am not sure if he really put together that Randi is Brent's wife, though he said he did. Some days are so much better than others. We just take one day at a time.
Mother on the other hand missed the visit since she was very sick, so we all stayed clear. Thank goodness after dealing with the sickness for at least 2 weeks she is finally feeling better.

Visit to the Pumpkin Patch

2010-10-16T21:13:00.000-07:00

What a beautiful day it turned out to be to go for a drive to the Pumpkin Patch and enjoy seeing the life on the farm. I think Brenna had fun seeing the animals, but she wasn't able to experience getting to close to them.

It was a look from a distance but it kept her intrigued.

However when it came to the roosters she could get close down and personal.
It was hard to pull her away as she was watching so intently.

Our next venture was the hay ride out to the pumpkins. Brenna had fun,and certainly rode styling. Many commented on the little fashion diva, but as we rode closer to the sea of orange she was very anxious to get off and go find the perfect pumpkin.

So many to choose from, it can get very confusing, but it really needed to be the right size, shape, and color.

She tried them out by sitting on them,

Lifting them, Smelling them, and even kissing some.

This green one fascinated her, but then it soon got put back down for another little one to soon pick up.
She of course took the time to pose for some fun pictures along the way.

Then came the hayride back to where we started, and to get some lunch, hot dog for her, and BBQ pulled pork sandwich for Randi and I. Then of course kettle corn for the ride home.

The drive back home she was very content with her perfect little pumpkin that she could hold, carry, kiss, or whatever. It was a perfect day!

Grama the great

2010-10-16T10:53:00.000-07:00

Saturday after having a great time at the pumpkin patch we went over to see Grama the great (Brenna's great grama DeRoest). It was quite a busy place with allot of faces she had never seen before, but she seemed to have fun watching people, or playing with the toys. While grampa D. was out in the backyard BBQ -ing the steaks we wandered the yard so she could enjoy the sunshine, as well as smell the flowers. Something she always seems to make time to do. We could all learn from this example.

Fun at the Children's Museum

2010-10-15T23:59:00.000-07:00

Friday the 15th was a busy day at the Children's Museum with Brenna, Randi, JoAnna and I. It was such a beautiful sunny day and very fun to watch Brenna as she roamed through the museum at the various rooms and stations.
She seemed to enjoy the "Water Works",

and "Clay Studio" the most, but it didn't stop her from venturing to all the other areas to experience the joy of climbing, jumping, building, touching, sliding, & driving.

"Vroom Room" had a bus, and ambulance with buttons, and flashing lights.

"All Aboard" It was fun for Brenna to look out the telescope at the bottom of the ship, and see us on the outside.
Or view through the port holes.

"Baby's Garden" had an area to slide, water stream to touch, a fish tank to look at, a water bed to jump, even though the sign said to sit or lie down, the children found it much more fun to jump.

"Building Bridgetown" had a tree house to climb up to, with gears to play with.
"Grasshopper Grocery & Butterfly Bistro" the children could go around and do there own shopping. Brenna decided to try out some of the produce, however it wasn't the same as at Papa Toner's house.As much as Brenna loves dogs, I don't think "The Pet Hospital" was real enough for her to get much from it. She likes more action from those cute furry animals.

"The Wonder Corner"

By the time we got to the "Tinkertoy" room Brenna was pretty tired, so went through that room very quick. She didn't have any desire to even play with the tinkertoys. She managed to make it out to the car, but once it started she fell fast asleep for a very peaceful ride home.

A Birthday Surprise !

2010-10-15T23:45:00.000-07:00

I was so excited when Randi and Brenna decided to come here to Portland this weekend as my Birthday gift.
With the kids living so far away, I don't see my grand babies as often as I'd like and they all change so much so fast. Of course when children are at this stage of life change is a constant.

I can't say that Brenna was excited to see me at the airport. I look different in person, than from the computer on Skype. So when she saw me walking toward her at the airport she started backing up. I knew then not to approach her too fast. Though it didn't seem to take too long before she was calling out "Grama D."

Their flight arrived on Thursday night about 9:00 pm, and as they walked into the door at the house Brenna walked straight over to the toys that were off in the corner of the living room, not even in sight. It was like a magnet drew her straight to it. She was so not ready to go to bed, which gave me a little time to get down and play with her. Her eyes went directly to the pumpkin, and from then on the pumpkin light needed to be on day and night, she would tell me "pumpkin on." She didn't think much of the building blocks, but the rocking horse seemed to be enjoyed, and drew her attention quite a bit.
Occasionally the rocking chair got attention as well.
Grampa decided to get Brenna's attention by making her chocolate chip cookies. Something she has never had, and I'm not to sure that she will have more any time soon. Randi has really tried to not introduce her to sugar, which is something I can really appreciate. None of us need the poison in our bodies, yet everything has sugar in it. Who say's that we don't have an addiction? As one of our patients said at work, "but it's so yummy".

Happy birthday Grama D!

2010-10-11T20:33:00.000-07:00

We think you're faBOOlous too!

Thanks for all that you do and for being so special to all of us. We love you lots and miss you too.

Hugs from Texas. :-)

More pictures of Parker

2010-10-05T21:31:00.001-07:00

Well I think Chelsea looks amazing for just having such a healthy cute baby boy.

As you can see Ethan is very excited about his new brother that he has been very patiently anticipating. Hopefully this enthusiasm will be enough to last a lifetime.

Such a sight to see a little miracle come into this world all peaceful and content with a wonderful family that is full of love.

This picture of this family of 4 would be perfect with a beautiful momma in white sitting at there side.

Yes, Parker is such a joy, and wonderful addition to this family, and we look forward to meeting him.

Announcing the arrival of Parker David DeRoest

2010-09-30T15:11:00.000-07:00

Another miracle happened today at 4:54 pm Valdosta Georgia time, and that was the birth of our new grandson "Parker David DeRoest".
Weighing in at 8 lbs. 7 oz., 20" tall. Momma and Baby are both doing wonderful.
As is the proud papa, and big brother Ethan.
Parker's due date is tomorrow the 1st of October, but he had other plans.
Grama Morse made it just in the nick of time by arriving last night, so she was blessed to be present at his birth. It is an amazing experience to watch your baby, bring a baby of her own into this world.
There is no doubt in my mind that we have a loving Heavenly Father watching out for us here on this earth.

Inquisitive neighbor Children

2010-09-05T20:46:00.000-07:00

The word must have got out that there were very white skinned people visiting Winnie because the one day we just relaxed at home there were children coming from all direction, many just to look from the boundary of the property.
I was really getting a kick out of looking around to see all the peering eyes.

Soon they were brave enough to come close, and even play with Savannah as she would get so excited about all of her friends. She would squeal with delight. At one point she said "they all love me"

Some of these pictures were the children of those that were helping Winnie with cooking or cleaning. In fact this little one was named after Winnie.

To look into the eyes of these young ones just melted my heart.
I didn't know the circumstances of their homes, but my heart wanted to gather each one.
My camera was in the house at one point when Savannah and Lexi were coloring outside around the table, and before I knew it there were 4 or 5 on lookers that I invited to color with them. It was so cute to watch the little ones be so creative with coloring. One of the little boys used every color on his picture. It was a very fun evening.

Visiting the Arizona of Kisumu

2010-09-03T20:20:00.000-07:00

One of our day trips in Kisumu was to visit the
Kit Mikayi Historical Rock sight. Winnie called this area the Arizona of Kisumu because of all the large rocks.

It was easy to get up on top of these rocks for fun picture taking.

We arrived more toward the evening, so darkness didn't take long to fall upon us.

The story was told of a man that loved to come to this spot (the tabletop rock formation) for prayer and meditation. He spent so much time there that his wife said that the rock was his first wife (Mikayi in Luo language).
Part of the tour was to hike up between the rocks, then back down inside the rock cave where many would hold a prayer, or meditation time.

It was amazing that Winnie made it up to the top, but the idea of going down inside the rock cave in the dark was really not an option, and my lack of desire to go inside any cave made it easy for me to stay at the top with Winnie and enjoy the beautiful view.
Once all returned back out of the cave we walked back down in the dark, and joined in with the singing and dancing with the women that worked there.
This became part of a ritual for the women. It was said that once visiting this spot if the women would dance here that they would not leave there husbands. Jokingly Naomi asked what do the men do to keep them from leaving there wives? We never did get any response.
Naomi and I danced just the same.
It was a quiet dark drive back home from another fun adventure together.

Visiting "The Property"

2010-09-03T19:58:00.000-07:00

I wish I could display these pictures in a panoramic form so you could see the beautiful full view of the property that Naomi & Michael purchased years ago, and are now preparing to start to build on.
It was exciting to see it in the beginning stages as they discussed how they might want the layout for the home, as to capture all of its beauty.
I'm not sure how quickly this project will take, nor am I sure how soon they plan to move there, but I try not to focus on that part. I am not very excited about it for selfish reasons. I really don't want to ever think of how far they will be away from us. Or the cost for us to go visit.

It was quite an adventure for the girls to try to walk around with being pretty rugged still.

There hope and dream it to have a home with all the comforts, and a balcony to enjoy every direction. To see the sunrise in the morning, and sunsets at night.

Things we take for granted

2010-09-02T19:32:00.000-07:00

OK I admit, along with the beauty came some time to really stop and think of the many blessing I truly have. Or the many that I'm sure I take for granted.
Let me start with the food. Not that it wasn't tasty, it was. But here I feel like we put so much emphasis on what we are going to eat each day since we have such a variety. We can enjoy Italian, Mexican, Greek, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, and the list goes on and on. They have the real purpose of eating to sustain life.
The staple foods there are bread with butter, warm milk with cocoa and sugar added, or strained tea, rice and stew. There were a few other things that we enjoyed like Farmers Choice Sausage, but since there wasn't any refrigeration we would eat that the first day after buying it, a tortilla like bread called Chapati,that took time to make, which I felt was very sweet that they made it for us the last night we were there. As you can see Savannah was enjoying helping as much as possible, a corn meal cake, and a scone like roll. Those three were used as a bread substitute. All were really delicious.
It was fun to have the bananas available to be picked fresh, or fresh grapefruit. Delicious!

One day one of the neighbors caught fresh Tilapia fish, which switched things up a bit. With the Lake so large, fishing is common for all. In fact late at night it was quite a sight to see just the lights flickering on the lake from all of the fishing boats that were out.Of course with that fresh fish came someone that had to clean, prepare and cook the fish. And it wasn't in the comfort of a kitchen with counters.

Next was the convenience of running water. Stop to think of how easy it is to turn the faucet, and viola! water for cooking, cleaning, laundering, Showering, using the bathroom, and washing hands many times a day.
Instead you must go down to the lake each day, carry barrels of water on your head back up the hill. Then first thing in the morning bringing two dutch ovens of water to a boil to be carried out in a basin to the bath house for sponge baths, or teeth brushing, or washing dishes after meals, etc.
Then comes the washing of the cloths from the day before to be hung out on the cloth line. Michael's cousin Molly was so kind to do all of our laundry, as well as prepare our bath water.

The milking was done daily, part to be used each day, and the other was sold to some of the neighbors, or exchanged for other goods.

At night we all slept with a net over us to keep the bugs off, and kept a flashlight close by in case of needing to get up since there was limited electricity from the solar panel and small generator. What was stored up during the day was saved for using to prepare for bed. Naomi and I would usually do a close to midnight run out to the outhouse so that we didn't have to go out by ourselves later.
It was like a camping experience for me, yet they experience this each day. Am I spoiled? Yes. However, it was nice to feel and appreciate the simplicity of life without so much to get it complicated, and that is what "Things" do.

A very peaceful abode

2010-08-31T20:08:00.000-07:00

I can see why Winnie loves the serene peacefulness of her home on the lake. It had such a pleasant breeze in the early evening, and the beauty of the trees, with the Lake in the background is beautiful.

I loved sitting outside the house visiting, or watching the rustling of the trees.

Of course if we sat outside that meant we could be swinging with the girls on our laps, or so they thought. That would keep all busy and happy.

The girls had such a fascination with the cows, and didn't hesitate trying to get closer and closer. We were the ones hesitant not knowing what they might do, it was a forever watch.

Many daily walks at the property to be closer to the lake seemed to be another form of entertainment. It was so adorable to see Michael with his two little ones going for there walk.
Or grama D. or Naomi enjoying our precious time.

Naomi made everyone feel like movie stars by taking lots of pictures. Some times I could actually capture some of her without the camera, but having fun with her family.
After taking a walk down to the Lake, I often just stopped to visit with some of the family. I never did see the Hippo's. I guess they were all camera shy.
Cuddle time was always a favorite, and time that was always treasured.

Flying High to Kisumu

2010-08-31T18:13:00.000-07:00

After spending a couple days in Nairobi
it was time to fly to Kisumu to visit Winnie at her home. A time to meet the grand babies. Thank goodness it was only an hour flight for the girls sake since it was so soon after the long journey.

Once arriving at the airport we were meet with many young adorable on lookers. I'm sure they were surprised to see someone with such whte skin. We probably looked very odd to them. Savannah was so excited to see so many Friends. It was hard to contain her. I couldn't help seeing a longing in the eyes of each one for the opportunity to fly anywhere.

We were met by our driver that Michael had pre-arranged for while on our visit in Kisumu, which meant that he would be with us 24 hours a day until Saturday when it is time to return to the Airport.

Before driving all the way out to Winnie's property the first stop was to the Nakamat, (grocery store) to pick up some groceries. Then came the 2 hour drive, that seemed forever long since Lexi so wanted to get out of being confined, so she screamed the last hour. Nothing seemed to make her happy which broke all of our hearts. I think our driver was wondering if this job was really going to be worth the price he was being paid.

With it getting dark fast, and having some of the roads closed or rerouted Michael was having a difficult time finding the road we should turn off on. It wasn't as though there were land marks to watch out for. Things were few and far apart. In fact I had a hard time realizing we were in one town or another since each were so primitive. The main road was quite bumpy, but that didn't seem to slow anyone down from walking with a load on there heads, shoulders, backs, or bikes. In fact I think many slept on mats right by the road with a lean to for shelter. I attempted to take pictures along the way, however with the roads the pictures were just a blur.
What I saw was allot of people working very hard to survive, yet lives were so simplistic. I have so much to simplify my life, however with that comes allot of complications. It's really hard to explain, but very humbling to witness first hand.

African adventures

2010-08-31T06:48:00.000-07:00

It was quite exciting to start the first week off by going to the Nairobi Giraffe park, where you could hand feed the giraffe's. Of course Savannah was not too excited to do so once she saw the long tongue come out and then leave a long string of saliva from its mouth to your hand. Naomi and I were both content to take a lot of pictures. Lexi was quite fascinated with the whole thing. She seems to love adventure and is a bit more daring than Savannah.

We were then off on a Safari drive, where we saw many different animals, but I would have to say I was most fascinated with the Giraffe's and Zebra's. Maybe it was because we saw so many, but I loved to watch how graceful they were as they would run or walk. We were able to drive quite close to both without any concern. At times I felt they would stop and strike a pose for us to take a picture.
As the day was drawing to a close, it was more and more concerning for Michael to figure out how to get us back home without a map, or any signs for directions. I guess it would have been a good idea to have a guide along with us. Oh well we all had a good time. Never did we see Simba, (Any wild cats) however we did see Ostriches, Gazelles, Impala ( African Deer like animal), Antelope, Wart Hogs (ugly things), and many kinds of birds.

Our last venture to see wild life was to the Animal Orphanage. A place that has rescued animals that were in need of assistance. The girls especially enjoyed seeing the animals up close. The Monkeys were camera shy in the cages behind the girls.
This part of our adventures Dani Winnie enjoyed with us, so the grandma's had fun with the grand-babies.
We finally got to see simba. There were several wild cats in the orphanage. 1 male Lion, several females, same adorable babies, and many Cheetahs, and Leopards.

Then onto the birdsAnother adventure time well spent.

Traveling abroad

2010-08-28T19:38:00.000-07:00

What a privilege it was to be invited along by Naomi and Michael to assist with girls on a long adventure to Kenya in east Africa, Michael's home land. A trip that I never dreamed I would take, but one that I have truly learned so much from in appreciation for all of my many blessings, as well as seeing more into Michael, and getting to know him more. It was fun to see him in a non-working mode, and enjoy his personality.
And I truly enjoyed spending time with Naomi and the girls. Another wonderful adventure with Naomi, the first being to Japan 9 years ago. Great times.
I flew into Austin, Texas after work on Thursday the 26th of August where I was picked up by Naomi. We then drove to her home to finish packing, then off we went on a three hour drive to the Houston International Airport.
First stop over was to Chicago where we enjoyed lunch at Ruby's Diner. A step back in time.
Then on to Amsterdam, Holland.
I think when we walked in the plane with the two girls it scared many other passengers away for fear that the girls would just cry or make things miserable, so several asked the stewardess to move them to another location. Which I will admit was our hope so we all had a little more room around us. That meant that even Lexi would have her own chair.

As it worked out the girls were very content coloring, playing with toys, watching shows, and sleeping peacefully. It was great!

When we arrived in Nairobi Savannah got out of the airport and yelled, "Dani (Grama) Winnie I'm here in Kenya."
After a 36 hour adventure to get this far, it would still be a few more days before we continued the journey to see Dani Winnie.

Fun with Rodney & Lauren

2010-08-24T21:12:00.000-07:00

It was nice to spend a few days with Rodney and Lauren this last weekend. Our hope and plan was initially to go to the beach, however we decided to go to Lake Merwin instead, and spend it with the Dover bunch. Before leaving town however Lauren was hungry for dinner at Cruisers, so that was our first stop. It has been years since we have stopped there since it was always the place to go after a concert, ball game, swim meet, or any other reason with the kids. Fond memories. Hopefully it helped Rodney to reflect on some positive memories since he seems to not remember much of what I thought were good times.
By the time we arrived through the traffic to Lake Merwin Cathy had just arrived herself. She planned to go early in the day, but many things got in her way. I can't say that the weather was sunny and beautiful. In fact it was a bit chilly at times, but still very beautiful, and fun to spend with the group.
Cathy and Michael were terrific hosts and very generous to share there haven with us. Casey, Roy'l and Javen camped out with us the first night, then Caven, Sarah, & Kaylynn came the following morning for a day of play, and through camp fire that night.
Lauren was surprised to see the many deer, and how tame they were to eat out of our hands. In fact one deer was quite determined to join us at the picnic table for our breakfast.
We enjoyed going out on there boat. We went out the first time and watched Caven, Sarah, and Roy'l ski, or go on the inter-tube. The rest of us were content to go for the ride and watch. There were occasional glimpses of the sun, and when it showed through we relished in the warmth. The next time we went out was for a sight seeing excursion. They shared some of there favorite peaceful water spots, and land sights which included their dream cabin on the Lake.
Saturday evening Lauren's parents and brother came to visit us for some fresh peach, and blackberry cobbler, as well as visit awhile around the campfire.
We enjoyed watching Rodney and Lauren interact, and see the love that they share.

Happy Anniversary!

2010-08-15T07:50:00.000-07:00

When I was 14 years old I met my sweetheart for the first time in high school, and once we graduated we decided to spend our lives together. 35 years ago today we were married in Oakland California. So many moves ago, much adventure, and many ups and downs. That is of course what makes life interesting.
Now with our 5 children grown, married and three with children of there own, we are learning to focus on one another once again. Serving and strengthening one another. As well as recognize the differences.
Thank you sweetheart for putting up with me for so many years, and hopefully many more to come. Now and Forever my Love.

Weekend at Klickatat Washington

2010-08-10T20:35:00.001-07:00

Last weekend we took mom with us to the Roley's home in Klickatat, Washington

to help them out by picking the blackberries and a few peaches.

It was the easiest pick I have ever experienced since they were thorn-less bushes, and wow were they beautiful to look at, as well as eat.

Most of the peaches were not quite ready this time, but I'm sure this weekend will be busy for their family with all the produce ripe and ready.

It was a very early morning to get up and out of here by 5:00am so we could be there by 7:00. It reminded me of my berry picking days as a child, but with a much better attitude now. What a beautiful morning it was, as well as the entire day.

Their home is right on the Klickatat river, and this serene spot both Tony and I enjoyed was also a favorite of dad DeRoest when he would visit.

In fact, he was content to sit in a drift boat tied to the tree or sit on this bench and fish all day.

At one point when mom was resting in the house, Tony was out visiting with the neighbors,

and I enjoyed taking pictures of the scenery around me, which included several hummingbirds flying around the feeders.

What a wonderful time we all had, but I most enjoyed the time we had together.

A Visit From The Donkins

2010-08-03T21:12:00.000-07:00

We got a wonderful surprise visit from JoAnna and Zack this past week. School was over for them both and they were hustling to find jobs in Rexburg for the fall so as to pay for School in the Winter and beyond. Not to mention rent. As it turned out they both landed jobs at a restaurant that were to start the following week, so they decided to come to Portland to visit and for Zack to work for his Uncle Hal at PCC (Portland Community College). His dad Russ was here in town from Arizona also working, so we had a fun evening visiting, and allowing the two of them a little rest before they returned to work.
All these hours paid off, since it not only paid for the trip, but they were able to make enough for their rent.
Zack worked pretty long hours each day and we saw very little of him, but of course that was the main purpose for their trip.

JoAnna was very helpful around here cleaning, picking berries, picking apples, helping her dad and Uncle Mike to build the shed out back.

It brought back some great memories,
and we were sad to see them go.

After a full day of cleaning out the remainder of things at Mother and Pops house Cathy enjoyed relaxing with her feet up reading a good book.

Pioneer Day

2010-07-25T15:42:00.000-07:00

My day began by donating blood first thing in the morning. I wanted to have the opportunity once more before I left the country next month. (Because of going to Africa, I will need to wait a year before donating again.)

Pioneer Day is always the 24th of July, and as a member of the Latter Day Saint church it is acknowledged each year to show appreciation to all those Pioneer forefathers that crossed the plains with handcarts or covered wagons to seek out a place for religious refuge.

This year it was 95 degrees here in Portland, Oregon and as I stood over a hot stove canning apple sauce, my thoughts were turned to the pioneers and the hardships they must have gone through just on a day to day living,

How very blessed I am to be in these times to not only enjoy great freedoms, but also to have electricity to accomplish my goal with little complications. Now it would have been even better had we had air conditioning, but considering all it stayed pretty cool. I did feel a bit overwhelmed trying to accomplish this goal by myself. In the past I had at least one of the kids around to help. A couple of years ago both JoAnna and Tony helped. It went so smoothly, but this time I had to call Tony in a panic to rescue me.

How grateful I am for his assistance even for the few hours. Things just run so much smoother with extra hands.

About 4:00pm Tony and I took a break

and went to the Church picnic for dinner.

We met with Marilyn and Dave,

as you can tell Marilyn and I have to put up with a lot with these two special men.

Tony and Dave then went golfing, the game that seems to draw many of the family together.

Marilyn and I went our separate ways, back to our homes.

And then I worked until 10:00 pm to complete my task at hand - which included the clean up, but what a wonderful feeling of satisfaction to look upon 64 jars of yummy applesauce to enjoy through the year. Hopefully the college kids with enjoy our efforts.

Brenna at Play

2010-07-16T21:45:00.000-07:00

Watching from a distance.

This trip was the first time we saw so much expression from Brenna.

Last we saw her was once again in Elk, mid March. She has grown so much since then. Not necessarily her size, but changed from a baby to an independent little girl.

Playing with Sadie

Playing in the yard

Caught smelling the pretty flowers.

Showing her teeth

She loves little things, so the Winnie the Pooh characters we brought were a hit.

Great fun!

Grama & Grampa D. Time

2010-07-15T20:28:00.000-07:00

This post is mainly pictures of our time in Elk Washington.

The weather was beautiful, and so was the location. It gave us many locations to take pictures, but the main interest was Brenna.

The first time she saw us she pointed and said "D". Which is how she identifies us. Grama and Grampa is still a challenge to her, but she did know who we were.

Tony enjoyed also his father son time.

Which I took advantage of as well. We never seemed to have Randi around to take pictures with her, so we missed that.

Brenna was sharing her snap pea with me, as well as her carrot from the garden.

We would go for walks to see the bears, pick wild flowers, or just on an adventure following Sadie. (The dog)

I was just so grateful that it didn't take the entire time for Brenna to warm up to Tony and I so we could enjoy her from closer up.

Weekend with the Toners

2010-07-12T17:53:00.000-07:00

Tony and I made some what of a last minute decision to go to Elk Washington for an extended weekend to see Randi, Brent, & Brenna who were there visiting Randi's family for a few weeks. It was very sweet of Lylia & Randy to send us a special invitation to come and stay at their home. Especially knowing that the other girls with significant others would be there as well, so the house was full. They provided us with the trailer, so we felt right at home.

Most of the time all together was spent around the campfire visiting. There is something about the outdoors, and a campfire that is quite soothing.
There is never too many kisses from, or given to these sweet grand babies.

Randy loved to take the grand-kids out for a walk to the garden, then soon they would come back with a carrot in one hand, and a snap pea in the other, chomping on both at times. The other special time with Papa Toner was going for a ride on the 4-wheeler, but Sadie also loves the rides, so when it is unattended she is very protective and mounts herself in position. No one dared to drive off without her.

I enjoyed watching the girls interact and strengthen the bond one with another. It's always rewarding as a parent to see grown children that like to do things together. I know it meant a lot to Lylia & Randy as well.

Tony and Brent went golfing on Friday, and Saturday, so that was a highlight for Tony to spend time with his son. (No pictures were taken)
I on the other hand enjoyed sitting back and watching everyone, but also enjoying the bonding time with Brenna on Saturday.

While the guys went golfing, Randi and her sisters went into Spokane to have a picture taken together for Lylia. The grama's enjoyed time at home with the two babies. It was a lot of fun, and I must say Brenna seemed to do very well around Chase. She would bring him toys to play with, rather than be upset if he took any of hers.
At one point after Lylia painted her toe nails Brenna was so cute to lift up her foot in front of Chase so he could see her pretty toes.
The little time that we had together was enjoyed watching how well Randi and Brent play with, and parented Brenna. Randi helped Brenna several times to use her words to express herself, rather than scream.This was one of those times of teaching. For being only 16 months she has an amazing vocabulary.

Sunday before we took off to go home I was able to get a family picture, minus Chase who was sleeping at the time. Then the remainder of the family parted ways as well to go home, or off golfing again.

How grateful I am for the time we could spend together, and for the hospitality that was shown to us.

Independance Day

2010-07-05T20:10:00.000-07:00

4th of July was a great day to celebrate. Not only a celebration of our terrific daughter in law Chelsea's Birthday, but also the time to acknowledge, and truly feel proud of our independence that our fore fathers worked so hard to establish.
After a fun picnic at church on Saturday before, then a very patriotic service at church, Tony and I were ready to go to the Morse's home for the picnic, delicious food, and great company. Each year they invite friends and family to enjoy dinner, and watch the Happy Valley fireworks from the back deck. We had front row seats of a beautiful display.
I would have to say the real hi light however was to visit with Travis Morse, who we haven't gotten to know very well. He was able to get leave from the Air Force, and come home for a couple of weeks to surprise his folks, which was great for us as well to get to know him better, and also a time for us to thank him for his much appreciated service to continue to preserve those Freedoms that we all enjoy.
How I wish that all could feel this great pride for this Land that we live, and not be ashamed or just take it for granted. What happened to the united feelings from 9-11 ? Everywhere you looked was a sea of flags waving proudly, wheather it be in front of homes, on cars, along fence posts, or on businesses. Each time I saw a flag my heart would swell, and the emotions would begin. This year was a different year however. As we drove to Church, then to Happy Valley I saw 4 flags. One at our home, one across the street, and two on the way up the hill that were old, faded, tattered and forgotten. Is this what we are teaching the children now about this land that we live? I feel it is time to regain that enthusiasm and pride. Stand up for what we know in our hearts is sacred, and feel the great appreciation once again for our Flag, and all it stands for.

"My Flag"

A gray-haired man, a little bent with age, stood as tall as he could with his hand over his heart as his country's flag passed by. Standing next to him, his grandson noticed a tear run down the old man's cheek. "Grandpa," he said, "Are you OK? Why are you crying?"

"I'm just fine," replied the grandfather. "I just love that flag, my flag."

What is there about a flag that makes us feel so proud and willing to give so much? An athlete will strive with all her might for the right to stand on the podium as her flag is raised in honor of her victory. A soldier will risk life and limb to raise his flag over a conquered battlefield. Patriots young and old pause in reverence, their hearts beating a little faster, when they see their flag unfold in the breeze.

Each of us has a land we call our own. We all feel connected to a country by virtue of our heritage or loyalty. And nothing seems to touch so deeply our love of country as that almost sacred fabric, woven with pattern and color, that we call our flag. Whether it is waving over a schoolhouse or a field of combat, the sight of our flag inspires courage, hope, gratitude, and unity.

The bond of common citizenship represented by our flag unites us in spite of differences of race, religion, or politics. When people who share our flag are in distress, we reach out to meet their needs and defend their rights. The allegiance we pledge to our flag is, at its heart, a promise to help one another.

An old man sheds a tear as the flag passes by. A young man begins to understand what those colors represent. And all of us, no matter which banner we salute, say with pride, "I love that flag, my flag."

Happy Independence Day ! ! !

Time appreciating Dads

2010-06-23T21:03:00.000-07:00

This fathers day started the Friday before when making 90 loaves of fresh wheat and white bread for all the men at church. In the past I have had the kids help me make treats, but now that they are all gone away I found a couple sister that were willing, so we had a fun afternoon baking bread.

Come Sunday after church Tony and I went and picked up Mom, then went to visit my Papa. He seemed to be pretty alert, and recognized me. He never has much to say any more, but his eyes and smile say allot to me. With such a strong and hard working man for so many years when his mind is remembering things he gets so frustrated . I guess Saturday was one of those days. For that reason I am grateful he doesn't remember much.

Our next stop was up on the hill to place a pot of flowers on Dads site. This is our special time with mom quite often. A quiet, peaceful, beautiful place for meditation.

Marilyn and Dave joined us for a special Fathers Day dinner and visiting. It wasn't the beautiful weather I had hoped for our BBQ, however the meal still turned out tasty and the company was nice.

In this day of remembering Fathers I am so very grateful for a wonderful husband that is such a great husband, Father and takes great joy in being a grandfather as well. He has always tried to teach the kids by example how we should treat one another. Now that it is just the two of us at home I realize more and more how much the kids still call him for advice, or just to talk. I pray that the closeness will never end.
In the mean time I have loved watching Anthony, Brent and Michael interact so tender and helpful with there own children, and Rodney and Zack with the neices and nephews, all showing that same love that they have been taught.

Finally with this tribute to Fathers how very grateful I am for a loving Heavenly Father that directs us all daily to the path of happiness. Our part is to follow his commandments. Sometimes we have a difficult time with that part, but once again a way has been prepared through a loving Savior, Jesus Christ who has atoned for all of the mistakes we make, so that we can return to live with him someday. Its that endure to the end that once again comes into play, then comes the Happily Ever After.

Love to my Father

2010-06-20T12:16:00.000-07:00

Because I have been blessed with a great father -
I know that I am a princess.
I know how to use caulking and duct tape when necessary.
I know that family is more important than anything in this world.
I know that spending time together is the best way to show love.
AND I knew what kind of man I wanted to be the father of my children.

Thanks Daddy for being such a great father and example to us. I love you forever. Naomi

Happy Father's Day to all of the great men in my life.

Honoring the past, and the present for Memorial Day.

2010-06-01T07:18:00.000-07:00

This past weekend was a time to pay tribute to all those who have past on from this life to the next, so we made our visit to the cemetery to place yellow roses on dad's grave,
(His favorite flower) and reflect on some special memories. We have enjoyed this special time with mom several times each year, however this time Jennifer Hornsveld was in town to visit, so she went with us. Jennifer came to town with Matt as he moved back here from California, then she will be flying back to California tomorrow with mom who will be attending another grandchild Mitchel's high school graduation.
Along with the California two visiting was Thom, Nancy & Emily from Snohomish Washington.(Camera shy) We had the pleasure of hosting the three of them, but during the days were spent at moms house visiting, and eating. Nancy however was with her mom who has been in poor health, which led her to be checked into the hospital Sunday night, so most of her time was away.It was fun also to have visits with Mary and Randy's boys. Though they live here we don't see them very often, and they are quite the comedians as they share there adventures. Of course when John and Dale's son Sam comes around it seems he always does some entertaining as well. Who would have ever thought that one family could have so many hams. Theater is an important part of many of the DeRoest bunch.
Each day the family got together for dinner at moms house, then played games, or visited until late.
Monday we celebrated Mom's 78th birthday.
She will be having another family party on her official birthday in California on Friday the 4th, but we all wanted to have our turn to pay our tribute and love to her for the great example she is of family unity and service.

Reminder lessons

2010-05-19T14:39:00.000-07:00

Have you ever wondered why we have some lessons over and over at church? Well Sunday was one of those days. Not that it is bad, it wasn't, in fact it was somewhat enlightening to know that many of the things that were discussed were actually activities that we did accomplish or do with our family.
The topic was "Perfecting the Family". The question was, what are some things that we did with our children as they were growing up to make them feel secure in the family, and who they are? As well as in training them? It was fun to reflect on those times, but also to hear comments of what others did, that we too experienced.
In these challenging days we live it is more and more important to strengthen, and fortify the family unit to withstand the many temptations that are thrown at them. As well as help each child to feel secure from knowing they are a child of God who loves them very much.
Ideas that were shared were to have a picture of the child in his or her room, along with other pictures of family, Christ, and the temple of their choice. Each of these things will help a child to remember who they are, and that they are very much loved.
Along with these things were discussed the importance of family prayer, scripture reading together, or reciting a scripture together on days that time is short. In our case, we worked as a family to memorize the 13 Articles of Faith together with a reward of going to Disneyland. Having meal time together and sitting at the table was another very important time to strengthen the family and helped us to become more united.
Advice for parents:
- Express Love and Show it. Don't assume that loved ones already know.
-Bear testimony of the love of our Heavenly Father & Jesus Christ.
-Be consistent, follow through with what you say you will do.
-Be constructive in speaking to a child, never compare, but praise.
-Someone can always fill in for you in your church responsibilities, but no one can fill in for you in your family. Not to say that you use this as an excuse not to serve, since the Lord needs each of us, but use wisdom in the time that you are away from your family.
The family is ordained of God. As parents we have the responsibility to love and care for each other and for our children, to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law abiding citizens wherever they live.
Poem: " My Child "
If I had my child to raise all over again,
I'd finger paint more and point the finger less.
I'd do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch and watch more with my eyes.
I would care to know less and know to care more.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious and seriously play.
I'd run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I'd do more hugging and less tugging.
I would be firm less often and affirm much more.
I'd build self-esteem first and the house later.
I'd teach less about the love of power and more about the power of love.

I know I didn't fulfill all that I could have as my family was growing. But at least I have more chances to fulfill those things now as a grandmother and a mother with no regrets, but great anticipation, even if it is through a long distance communication. Thank goodness for modern technology of cell phones, e-mail, video, and Skype, we can all be connected to continue the bonding of our family.

Feeling organized ?

2010-05-16T13:56:00.000-07:00

Ok, one thing got organized this weekend, while the rest of our surroundings are still in a disarray. I decided that with Tony's Birthday this week I would try to help him organized his shed. When ever he wants to do a project he spends hours trying to locate the proper tools, even if it is a ten minute job. I know how frustrated he has been, so I figured it would be a great Birthday gift, however last Friday I went to 6 different places to find the best kind of shelves, for the right price. He seems to have a sense of things around any holiday, and decided to go buy things for himself, and once again he let me know he wanted to get the shed in order , and decided that he would spend Saturday doing so. I told him that was exactly what we were going to do, then proceeded to tell him what I had researched.
Thank goodness I didn't buy the shelving I planned to, since it wasn't what he wanted, so we made a trip to Home Depot together to pickup the proper supplies.
He was like a child with a new toy with excitement as we cleaned out the shed, put together the shelving units, organized his tools in categories while putting them in clear plastic totes, then labeling them accordingly.
By the end of the day we were both pretty tired, but thrilled to have accomplished this great feat. I just pray he will love it enough to keep it organized as he uses the tools.

That much fun should never have to be repeated twice.